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Quote AngelOTG Replybullet Topic: I hate gay hate.
    Posted: 22 August 2009 at 11:21pm
Okay, I just got finished with an uber long debate with a guy on YouTube. Basically I proved him wrong on every claim he had as to why homosexuality was bad, a crime against nature, etc.

But, now I'm just kinda' pissed in general at how badly gay hate is getting.

It's like, racism is fading and people need something new to attack. Seems to be gay people now.

So, discuss:

1. Homosexuality
2. Why you hate gay hate.
3. Why you hate gay people. (Expect a debate from yours truly)
4. Anything else on-topic.
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Quote arrrgh Replybullet Posted: 23 August 2009 at 12:58am
I hate gay hate because it's just as bad as racism, sexism, or discriminating against anything else that someone can't change. Why don't gay people deserve the exact same rights as others?
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Quote greenraven Replybullet Posted: 23 August 2009 at 4:43am




Like with a lot of things in life I'm indifferent to all of this. My personal philosophy in life is:
"If it doesn't effect me directly, why should I give a f**k."



*Also, as a side note: Lesbian friends are awesome cuz they let get a freebie when you're feeling bored or sad. Lesbians ftw!
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Quote tuaarita Replybullet Posted: 23 August 2009 at 4:49am
greenraven you're so full of sh*t.


you don't have lesbian friends :p
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Quote Blueberry_pie Replybullet Posted: 23 August 2009 at 6:01am
Also, it's 'affect', not 'effect'. (In that sentence, anyway)
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Quote ellie-is Replybullet Posted: 23 August 2009 at 7:30am
I dont care about gay people as long as they keep their penises away from me.
I dont care about gay haters as long as they dont think I am gay.
But hating a person because he is gay is pretty stupid though.
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Quote Antifarea Replybullet Posted: 23 August 2009 at 8:04am
Originally posted by Angel of the Great

Okay, I just got finished with an uber long debate with a guy on YouTube. Basically I proved him wrong on every claim he had as to why homosexuality was bad, a crime against nature, etc.

But, now I'm just kinda' pissed in general at how badly gay hate is getting.

It's like, racism is fading and people need something new to attack. Seems to be gay people now.

So, discuss:

1. Homosexuality
2. Why you hate gay hate.
3. Why you hate gay people. (Expect a debate from yours truly)
4. Anything else on-topic.


Nothing personal... but I'm not going to discuss anything to do with this... I just don't think it's really neccesary.

1. You can't change how people think, everyone has the right to hate and or love anything they want. It could be hate against gay people, it could be hate against straight people, who cares... it's still hate, and you have the right to build it upon you, just like you have the right to feel and express (in a legal way) them...

see? this is the thing about america... you are allowed to think whatever you want to think and express those thoughts, but you are not allowed to force them into others... you don't agree with him cause you don't hate gay people... which is why you think america completely thinks like that guy... don't base your conclusions on only one person.... and also, once again, he's entitled to hate anything he wants.

Btw I can't believe you think gay hate is something new haha... racism, gay hate, whatever hate has been coming since the beginning of this world.

And well, I don't hate gay people.



Edited by Antifarea - 23 August 2009 at 8:26am
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Quote IQbrew Replybullet Posted: 23 August 2009 at 10:38am
What did you expect from youtube, a bunch of civilized eight-year-olds?
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Quote AngelOTG Replybullet Posted: 23 August 2009 at 1:00pm
Originally posted by Antifarea

you don't agree with him cause you don't hate gay people... which is why you think america completely thinks like that guy... don't base your conclusions on only one person....

Btw I can't believe you think gay hate is something new haha... racism, gay hate, whatever hate has been coming since the beginning of this world.


But it's not just him?

1 - Basically every gay teenager I know across the interwebz has at least 1 bully at school who picks on him/her specifically because of their sexuality. (A recent study showed over 65% of gay youth were threatened in high school based on orientation and over 40% were injured for the same reasons.)

2 - Prop 8. Need I say more? (In case so, here it is: Prop 8 was outright hatred towards gay people, directed from the GOVERNMENT (well, the State's government, but government nonetheless). They banned gay marriage in California for no reason. One person can't possibly know when every single same-sex marriage occurs, so it's not like every second we were stabbing them through the heart. They simply didn't like the thought and took away our rights.)

3 - Most states (39 outright don't allow it and 4 require you to go through a court hearing) do not allow marriage of same-sex couples.

It's not the actions of one man that has really upset me. It's the actions of a nation that drives me to the edge.


(Also, I didn't say gay hate is new. I said "how bad gay hate is getting", as in it's getting worse. ; _; )
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Quote KittenMaster Replybullet Posted: 23 August 2009 at 1:19pm
I have a "hate the sin, love the sinner" policy.
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Quote greenraven Replybullet Posted: 23 August 2009 at 3:31pm
Originally posted by Angel of the Great

1 - Basically every gay teenager I know across the interwebz has at least 1 bully at school who picks on him/her specifically because of their sexuality. (A recent study showed over 65% of gay youth were threatened in high school based on orientation and over 40% were injured for the same reasons.)

How about the 100,000 straight teenagers that have bullies that pick on them. What? Nobody cares about them all of a sudden? 

Bullying isn't limited to homosexuality. I could probably create a very, veeeery, long list of groups and peoples that get bullied each and every single day. Bullying is somewhat of a mute point here.
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Quote Antifarea Replybullet Posted: 23 August 2009 at 4:14pm
Originally posted by Angel of the Great


It's not the actions of one man that has really upset me. It's the actions of a nation that drives me to the edge.


I hate to break it to you, but you'll have to get used to that... you can only watch your own views and behavior, let the world be as it is... cause that is really none of your (or everyone's) business... trying to change the world, is trying to change people... people only change if they agree, if they don't they just wont.  Just worry about you not doing things that you think might offend other people. :P


(Also, I didn't say gay hate is new. I said "how bad gay hate is getting", as in it's getting worse. ; _; )


I think actually gay people are being more accepted... at least from my point of thinking lol... there are other countries that have it a lot worse, so you shouldn't really complain man... also I think you shouldn't really complain also since you're not gay (from what I read)... there are many things I hate in this world, but most of these things don't happen to me, so they don't really bother me much... but I know what you mean lol.

Anyways, have a look at this video, it's a point of view from a gay guy, on regards homosexuality and girls kissing... doesn't truly cover much on homosexuality in overall, but it's really ironic and true lol:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0tHppucxMrM


Originally posted by greenraven

Originally posted by Angel of the Great

1 - Basically every gay teenager I know across the interwebz has at least 1 bully at school who picks on him/her specifically because of their sexuality. (A recent study showed over 65% of gay youth were threatened in high school based on orientation and over 40% were injured for the same reasons.)

How about the 100,000 straight teenagers that have bullies that pick on them. What? Nobody cares about them all of a sudden? 

Bullying isn't limited to homosexuality. I could probably create a very, veeeery, long list of groups and peoples that get bullied each and every single day. Bullying is somewhat of a mute point here.


Yes, I was just about to write a paragraph about something similar to what GR said here... seriously, you only need to be a human being to get bullied... it's part of life, it's negative side of it.

...the gay hate is just another number... of the hundreds or thousand of other types of hate and or negative acts you'll witness in life haha.
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Quote ekobor Replybullet Posted: 23 August 2009 at 6:08pm
1. Homosexuality
Uhm... Not really a 'topic' per se, so I'm not sure how to discuss it. So instead I'll post a single word that sums up my general feelings about it:
Yay~

2. Why you hate gay hate.
I hate gay hate because it is usually directed at me. When it isn't directed at me, it still hurts.

In general though, I dislike it because it shows that people still think that the one basic thing I can't really change about my self is wrong. It's not that I mind them thinking it's wrong, it that they seem to feel the urge to tell me it's wrong, and that my being gay makes me a perfect subject for hatred, and that I shouldn't be allowed to do anything back about it.
It's not the thought I hate, it's the actions.


3. Why you hate gay people.
I don't, I love them~

4. Anything else on-topic.
I think that homosexuality is making great bounds in the tolerance area. Which is all I care about. Acceptance comes later, right now I think all that should be fought for is tolerance. I don't care if religious sects never accept and marry homosexuals, if they want to say it isn't part of their religion they can go ahead and do that. The fact that said religious sects can claim the word marriage bugs me. marriage is marriage. It has nothing to do with religion anymore, so a 'civil union' between two homosexuals I don't think is good enough, but forcing churches(et al) to support marriages within them is silly.

But really, I've come across little resistance to my "lifestyle choice" in my short little lifespan, and I've been able to be open about it for a few years now with little trouble. So yeah, I'd say that tolerance levels (at least here in Canada) are getting better on average.
The only reason it seems worse is because the 'battles' are in the news so often right now.
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Quote AngelOTG Replybullet Posted: 23 August 2009 at 6:26pm
Originally posted by Antifarea

I hate to break it to you, but you'll have to get used to that... you can only watch your own views and behavior, let the world be as it is... cause that is really none of your (or everyone's) business... trying to change the world, is trying to change people... people only change if they agree, if they don't they just wont.  Just worry about you not doing things that you think might offend other people. :P


Hey, I can try can't I? ; _;

Sorry, but I'm just not one of those people that sits around and lets it happen. If I see someone openly hating gay people, I'm going to voice my opinion on the matter.

Guess I was just raised to be imposing and outspoken. XD


Originally posted by Antifarea

I think actually gay people are being more accepted... at least from my point of thinking lol... there are other countries that have it a lot worse, so you shouldn't really complain man... also I think you shouldn't really complain also since you're not gay (from what I read)... there are many things I hate in this world, but most of these things don't happen to me, so they don't really bother me much... but I know what you mean lol.

Anyways, have a look at this video, it's a point of view from a gay guy, on regards homosexuality and girls kissing... doesn't truly cover much on homosexuality in overall, but it's really ironic and true lol:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0tHppucxMrM


Actually, I am gay. :P

Also, true there are countries that have it worse. But there are also countries that have it much better. America is always raving about how much better it is than everyone else, yet they just kinda' "say not do". If they're going to talk the talk, they should walk the walk.


And the guy in that video isn't saying girl-on-girl is bad. He's saying it's bad how the media exploits it for profit.

I mean... it, like, wasn't even hard to pick up on that. o.o;


Originally posted by Antifarea

...the gay hate is just another number... of the hundreds or thousand of other types of hate and or negative acts you'll witness in life haha.


Okay?

I chose to rant about this and specifically this. I know there are other forms of hate, but I want to discuss this one. >.>


Originally posted by greenraven

How about the 100,000 straight teenagers that have bullies that pick on them. What? Nobody cares about them all of a sudden? 

Bullying isn't limited to homosexuality. I could probably create a very, veeeery, long list of groups and peoples that get bullied each and every single day. Bullying is somewhat of a mute point here.


Touche. ;)
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Quote skamocore Replybullet Posted: 23 August 2009 at 7:55pm
Just stopping by to post this - http://www.thinkb4youspeak.com/TheCampaign/
It's a campaign dealing with the use of 'homophobic language' in schools. It might be of interest to some.

@Greenraven - it's "moot point" not "mute point"...
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Quote cure Replybullet Posted: 23 August 2009 at 8:23pm
I stopped reading after "I was arguing on youtube"

@greenraven:

"Washing one's hands of the conflict between the powerful and the powerless means to side with the powerful, not to be neutral."
"All that is necessary for evil to succeed is that good men do nothing."


this entire thread seems like fishing for a homophobe to argue with.



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Quote greenraven Replybullet Posted: 24 August 2009 at 6:31am
Originally posted by Angel of the Great

Hey, I can try can't I? ; _;

Sorry, but I'm just not one of those people that sits around and lets it happen. If I see someone openly hating gay people, I'm going to voice my opinion on the matter.

Guess I was just raised to be imposing and outspoken. XD

Originally posted by ThereIsNoCure

"Washing one's hands of the conflict between the powerful and the powerless means to side with the powerful, not to be neutral."
"All that is necessary for evil to succeed is that good men do nothing."

My response to both of those is...

"An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind." ~ Mahatma Gandhi


I'm not saying people shouldn't stand up for what they believe. But there comes a point when you're simply feeding a perpetual cycle of hate.

Someone does something to someone. Someone retaliates for it. Someone retaliates for the retaliation. Wash, rinse, repeat.

Eventually people get so caught up in the tire slashing, window breaking, fire setting, hate talking, that they forget why they were arguing in the first place.

Let me go off-topic for a second here and provide an example:
If you ask any red blooded American about Communist they'll tell you "Communism is evil! All Communists deserve to die!" Ok, that's fine. But why? No one is going to tell you 'why' because no one remembers why.

Back on topic, I'm all for a good head bashing but sometimes you gotta take the high road. "Discretion is a better a part of valor" folks. ;)


And before anyone starts with "Well, you're not gay, so you wouldn't understand what it's like to be picked on."

You're right, I'm not gay. But I do understand what it's like to be picked on. Constantly.

And let me tell you, for all the fingers I've smashed, for all the bones I've broken, for all the black eyes I've given, for all the foul words I've yelled in people's faces nothing was more effective than when I realized how foolish it all is and simply felt sorry for all those ignorant rednecks that were too afraid of someone new and different.

Long story short: Stop playing the game and go chill on the sidelines with the cute cheerleaders. XD

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Quote cure Replybullet Posted: 24 August 2009 at 2:09pm
That quote's good and all, but I fail to see how it makes sense. I'm not talking about retaliation, I'm talking about choosing between ignoring injustice in one's own society ("then they came for the jews, but I didn't speak up, because I wasn't a jew") and caring enough about minority groups that one is not a member of to work towards an end of injustice. Or if not, at least see how indifference is not the same thing as neutrality in cases like these.

No one's saying "gays are getting picked on so let's riot", just that injustice is wrong, and so is indifference to injustice. Vote to allow more rights, sign a petition, demonstrate, whatever. No one's advocating violence, so your whole post seems completely off-topic to me.




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Quote greenraven Replybullet Posted: 24 August 2009 at 3:26pm
Hmmm, I suppose that's a good point. XD
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Quote Aleiav Replybullet Posted: 25 August 2009 at 9:53pm
I haven't read everything here cause, holy crap gaise.

But I will say this. YouTube is a litmus test for stupidity on the internet. Don't take it as a true representation of the world and don't waste your time with it. If there's anything I've learned from volunteering for the gay community and being a part of it, it's that the people worth talking to and arguing with are the people who are willing to change their mind.
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Quote Yelof Replybullet Posted: 10 September 2009 at 6:43pm
'Kay. I didn't read the post because I'm a lazy dick but I have one thing to say, hating homophobes is totally hypocritical of you're gay.
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Quote sapphira83 Replybullet Posted: 13 September 2009 at 11:14am
1. i don't care what you say, you're not born gay; you become gay when you feel a certain attraction towards the same sex. sexuality is not define by the genitals but rather by the heart (something my gay friend told me).

2. it's just as bad as racism or sexism. yes, we live in a country where we have the freedom to hate, but we could at least tolerate one another cause we're all going to be judged in front of God. (preachy)
3. i don't hate gays. some of my friends are gay and i'm pretty cool with everyone i talk to. i just hate stupid people who are narcisstics (nuff said).
4. anyone knows of ways to reduce stress? or should i save it for another topic?
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Quote Walrus Replybullet Posted: 13 September 2009 at 11:59am
here in israel its much more worse.
the other day, a guy stepped in a gay clubhouse an shot everyone.
gay marriage is not allowed by the law and not recognized by the goverment.
its mainly because heavy belivers think gay love is against the jewish religion, and there shouldnt be gay love in a jewish country.
it have come to a state that heavy belivers have throwen rocks on gay parades and gay pepole that pass in jewish neighborhoods.
i dont have a problem with gay people, it just doesn't bothering me. but i am more an atheist than a jew( i am a jew when its convinient, like holydays)
also, sorry for my bad grammer and some spelling errors.
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Quote crow Replybullet Posted: 13 September 2009 at 2:24pm
Take this conversation somewhere else.
 
Being gay is a sin, but i dont hate. its just wrong.
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Quote sapphira83 Replybullet Posted: 13 September 2009 at 6:39pm

@ walrus: i didnt know you was jewish..i mean israeli. a couple of days ago, there was a raid at a gay club in atlanta; accusations of homophobic comments made by the officers. i'm pretty scared of you, no offense.

@ crow: someone will close this topic, don't worry. being gay is not a big a sin as stealing and killing. you're free in believing in whatever, dude.
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Quote greenraven Replybullet Posted: 14 September 2009 at 10:40am
Originally posted by sapphira83

1. i don't care what you say, you're not born gay
Not true. Some people are born with a chemical imbalance in their body. Like hermaphrodites. Some people literally are born gay. Science FTW!


Originally posted by crow

Being gay is a sin, but i dont hate. its just wrong.
Well, here we go, it was just a matter of time before religion reared it's head.

I'd put out a few Satan jokes out there, but I'm not that much of a douchebag.
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Quote Dhr. Bosch Replybullet Posted: 14 September 2009 at 11:21am
i hate gay hate because it's usually based on prejudice which to me is willing ingorance. now i don't care if you don't know things, happens to everyone all of the time, but willing ignorance pulls the blood from under my nails. on needs to constantly challenge ones believes so as not to get stuck in a pattern of thought that will inevitably be proven to be flawed as the world we live in is to complex for one man to fully comprehend, even though we spend every minute trying to do just that.

i hate gays because, well i don't hate gays in general, it's the flamboyant flaming homesecuals whose whole life and personality seems to be about their sexuality. i get pissed of when i try to talk about films and all they've seen are musicals and barbera streisand movies (and the odd one out who also like the occasional arthouse film... about homosexuality), i get pissed of if they're drunkenly stroling throght the streets singing "i will survive" or other 'gay anthems', i generally despise disco,trance and techno and i cannot stand people on XTC. Needless to say you will not see me hanging out in gaybars even though i have done my fair share of experimentation in my teens, and i hang with LGBT people regularly. i do not fear the gay, i just don't like the scene and i don't like feeling like a piece of meat. i'm definitly not saying all gays are like the kind i hate, but there are quite a few and sadly they are usually the more vocal ones.
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Quote sapphira83 Replybullet Posted: 14 September 2009 at 12:21pm

@ greenraven: i need to read an article about that..isn't science great? also, please do a Satan joke in case some religious numbnut decides to rear its ugly head

@dhr. bosch: i agree. i don't like it when the most flamboyant ones annoucing their sexuality every two second...but then again, every group, every race, and every religion has at least a few dumba$$es that will protray the stereotype...believe i know
 
@walrus: sorry about the earlier comment. i don't hate people, just am anti-social.
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Quote AngelOTG Replybullet Posted: 14 September 2009 at 2:45pm
Here's the main thing I fight back with in terms of "God hates gays":

Let's say you have a son. If you catch your son doing drugs, do you hate him? You may hate the drugs or hate that he's doing the drugs, but you most likely don't hate your son for it.

I'm pretty sure God is copacetic with gay people, just not being gay. So if a gay guy does the whole "repenting for our sins" thing, I'm pretty sure tossing in a little "sorry for being gay, but it's who I am" is good enough for the guy. ;)
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Quote PixelSnader Replybullet Posted: 15 September 2009 at 12:08pm
I don't hate gay people.
I hate BLATANTLY gay people.(well not really hate but really dislike and am annoyed by)

The persons that rub it in your face that they are gay. The ones that claim they're being discriminated
on sexuality if they are picked last in gym class while they really just suck at *random sport*.
The ones that wear pink clothes and rainbow underwear just because they want to show they're gay.

If you are gay, fine. If you are not gay, fine. If you like putting your dick in an anthill and rub it around,
fine. Just don't go and bother me with it. If at any point the necessity arises for me to know you are gay, I
would like to know, but not straight off the bat.
- If I go for a drink with you, I don't care.
- If we play games on the computer, I don't care.
- If we go to a sauna, i'd be slightly bothered.
- If we are in the same classes at school, I don't care.
- If you're in love I don't care about you being gay, just that you're happy.
- If you're in love with me, i'd be bothered and we'd talk about it.
- If we go swimming, I don't care.
- Et ceter a.

On the topic of religion vs homosexuality. I personally find religion useless in this time and age. It started
out as a way to explain things in nature (weather gods et al) but we've come a long way since there. Currently
the only use for religion (i think) is to give people something to hold on to and to believe in.
However I believe in humanity and that we keep improving ourself in terms of ethics (check: slavery, human rights,
foreign aid etc.)

Sins are a somewhat ridiculous concept. If it doesn't harm anyone it's not harmful and thus should not be punished.
Being gay does not harm anyone, thus it is not a sin. Killing someone kinda does harm someone. So it's a sin. Killing
a person so he doesn't kill dozens of people over them being gay is a sin. But does this weigh up against the dozens
of lives you save? Maybe. Thing is, sins are black and white in a coloured world. They are too abstract to be used
in reality...

Back to hating gay hate.

I once said that the Netherlands are slipping down because we got radically tolerant. Up to the point where we would no
longer tolerate intolerance. Sounds confusing, but basically there's pseudo-tolerant people out there raging at people
that show negative feelings towards something for some reason.

Some people have negative views. Be it against race, sexe, sexuality, religion or whatever. These people exist. They will
continue to exist. They will not appreciate what your life views are. If you hate them over those views, does that not make
you do the same as them? By hating gay hate you are effectually creating a new minority, you are discriminating yourself.

I say you shouldn't HATE gay hate. I'm not saying: love it, agree with it, support them. I say leave them be, disagree with
their view but do not attack them over it. Hate breeds hate breeds hate breeds hate.

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Quote greenraven Replybullet Posted: 15 September 2009 at 1:15pm
Actually, there is one thing I don't like about gay people. How they grinched the rainbow! Dude! It's the f**king rainbow! You can't just steal it and hoard it as yourself! It belongs to everyone! Give it back!

It's kinda like how the Nazis stole the swastika. I am by no means comparing gays to Nazis, but still. I've got an old family heirloom, a swastika necklace dating back to the 1400s way, waaaaaaaaay before Nazis. But do you think I can just put it around my neck and go outside with it? Hell no! Not without having to give everyone I meet a small history lesson on the swastika's true origins.
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Quote sapphira83 Replybullet Posted: 15 September 2009 at 1:32pm

wow snader that was very deep, but very true

amazing how a group can take a simple symbol and warp it into their own identity

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Quote tripnfelt Replybullet Posted: 16 September 2009 at 1:14am
I think most people have experienced gay hate - being called a "fag", which is implying you should be burnt - not very nice, so most people have a somewhat valid opinion.

I think homophobia isn't getting better or at least we're progressing way too slowly. There was a time pre-1500's without gay hate, when most straight men would try out a pretty boy at the brothel every now and then and it was the norm - it was also a time when it was okay for the rich to run over and kill the poor in their carriages for sport, so we have moved forward in some areas. It is obviously the stupidity of religion holding back humanities evolution.

I hate the gay culture portrait in the media and copied by impressionable gays because buying $500 jeans is just stupid gross consumerism and a heavy focus on having stacks of sex distracts from more important things in life and isn't healthy. But as for being flamboyant I am fine with them, why not, if they're going to cop sh!t for being gay anyway why not scream and get overly excited over bitney spears, order tasty colorful cocktails, wear rainbow underwear etc if that's what they generally like. People have a right to express themselves anyway they like. It's no different from people who are really into rap music, or being jewish, or gothic  dressing and acting a certain way.

I'm sure gays won't mind if you wanna dress in rainbows, the heavily ignorant right wing americans don't know that the queer liberals have adopted it as a symbol of gay acceptence - they just think rainbows are "gay" and for "fags" anyways.
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Quote greenraven Replybullet Posted: 16 September 2009 at 6:24am
Originally posted by tripnfelt

I'm sure gays won't mind if you wanna dress in rainbows, the heavily ignorant right wing americans don't know that the queer liberals have adopted it as a symbol of gay acceptence - they just think rainbows are "gay" and for "fags" anyways.


Oh, I wasn't talking about the gays, I was talking about the bullies. Rainbows these days are like gang colors. Put them on even by accident and pay the price. Hence why I want the rainbow to be neutral again.
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Quote minipuck Replybullet Posted: 02 October 2009 at 8:57am
don't have anything against gays or bisexuals, i am annoyed by the people that act gay-ish, but then again there are plenty of people that are not gay that act gay-ish, and it's not cuz they're gay, it's just the behavior.

It's just like im annoyed by really racist people, it's just the behavior, i don't care about being gay or whatever or not.

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Quote Elk Replybullet Posted: 05 October 2009 at 8:23pm
I haet gays!
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Quote Pragz Replybullet Posted: 05 October 2009 at 11:03pm
Originally posted by Elk

I haet gays!


Lol. :P
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Quote greenraven Replybullet Posted: 06 October 2009 at 3:26am
Jeezuz herbert crabs! Why is this thing still going?! >:O

Eye for an eye bad, k. End of story.
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Quote sapphira83 Replybullet Posted: 06 October 2009 at 7:15am
i thought they closed this post
 
people, lets just squashed this, and move on with our lives
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